Saturday, November 21, 2009

We Need A Day of Rest

A busy end to a busy week.
Matt was out of town until Wednesday night, Thursday was the typical crazy day of speech therapy and gymnastics with another curve ball of Site Council (PTA type meeting) thrown in at the same time as Evalyn's gymnastics. I was very literally home for a total of 3 hours in between 8AM and 5PM.

On Friday, I baked 3 pies and finished final touches on a 15 min slideshow/movie for our big annual early Thanksgiving/Christmas church dinner that night. We arrived early for the dinner so I could set up all the A/V stuff. And then stayed after to visit and help clean-up. Kids had fun running around the church for the last hour of it all. Late bedtimes, tired parents, but it was a nice evening with good friends and good food.

Baby Prep Stuff
Saturday morning. Matt made snickerdoodles with the kids while I prepped and primed the office for a new shade of green paint. While the primed spots were was drying, we all went down to tour the hospital to see where we'll likely be having this baby. It's very small but we felt good about it and the staff's commitment to following our birth plan. There are only 2 labor and delivery rooms and 2 post-partum rooms. Good news is, there's only a handful of people due the last 2 weeks of December so chances are very high I'll get my own post-partum room. Yay for that.

I also had a nice long conversation with Kathy the lactation consultant and feel much more confident in what techniques we can try this time around to get more breast milk out of me for the baby. If we hadn't been moving when Linnea was born, I would've sought out some more options than we had with the previous two. There was just too much going on then to try anything more. But that's water under the bridge. It was good to get our heads more in the game of actually having this baby and what our post-partum life will entail as far as feeding the baby goes.

It was also important too because I'd still been contemplating whether a homebirth could still work for us even if I am GBS postive (won't know for sure on that till first week of Dec). But more than likely I am and that means I will forgo that idea unless this baby falls out of me before we get to the hospital. Not very likely given my history. I'd really love to have one of those big warm padded birthing tubs and labor and deliver in that at home, but that probably takes more planning and preparation than I've done at this point with only 4-6 weeks to go. So it was good to visit the hospital and feel like we could have a good birth experience there with our team of nurse/midwife/family practice doctor that we've chosen. Although a big part of me still wishes that they could show up at my home instead... or there was a fabulous birth center like we enjoyed for our first two...

Anyway, after the hospital it was home for lunch and more painting before we ran out the door again to Medford for the rest of the day. I wanted a darker shade of the very pale light green that was on the walls. But I think I went a bit too dark. "Dragon's Hide" sounded so much better than "Greenwich", even though Greenwich was the center spot on the strip of 7 colors and Dragon's Hide was just darker. I still need to do the touch up/corners/edges but it is definitely darker! Perhaps a less contrasting trim color will help. If I can snag Matt's work camera I'll try and post some pics of it soon and ask for some feedback. (We still need to decide what we'll replace our lost camera with....soon!!)

Why we'll most likely opt for a hotel room next Stake Conference.
This weekend is also our semi-annual church meeting where we meet with church leaders from our geographic area, called a stake, made up of several wards/congregations. Typically there are training meetings for the leaders over the various organizations for children, youth, women and men. Since Matt and I both have leadership callings (he's in Elder's Quorum and I am in Primary) we both had meetings this afternoon. Holly: 2:30-3:30, Matt: 3:30-5:00. Dinner Break. Adult session: 6:00-7:30. Then Sunday morning is the 10:00-12:00 meeting.

Only kink is that we live an hour a way from the Stake Center. So we left our house at 1PM. Plan A was Matt would run some errands with the kids while I was at my meeting, then I would run a few more errands with the kids after my meeting and head home with the kids around 4:30-5:00. Matt would stay for the evening session and get a ride home with someone from Yreka. About halfway into Plan A, Matt suggested Plan B: the kids could just play in one of the rooms with books/crayons during the evening meeting and then we could all go home together, that way I could hear the talks then too. I said sure why not. At least this way the kids will fall asleep in the car and we can just transfer them. Plus Matt and I would get some extra conversation time.

Why Holly will re-stock her car with clothing
So I'm at Jo-Ann's trying to remember what color of sequin trim I'm supposed to get Evalyn for one of her costumes for the ballet performance in a few weeks. I give up and decide to head back to the church. As I'm checking out, I smell a poopy diaper. But it wasn't Linnea, it was poor Henry who thought he'd just wet his pants. Ooops. I can't remember the last time he's had an accident like this. No change of clothes but miraculously a random pair of underwear surfaces in the car. Saved. Almost. At this point I perhaps should've switched back to Plan A and headed home with my pantless boy. But I figured why turn back now? We still need to eat before we head home anyway. By then it's only another hour before Matt will be finished as well.

In very quick time we rushed to Target, nestled Henry into the back of a conveniently abandoned cart with his coat zipped over his legs, buckled the very whiny Linnea into the front with Evalyn in tow.
Pants, check. (I contemplated PJ's at this point, but the pants were cheaper.)
Diapers, since we needed them and I like Target's new brand, check.
Random hairbows that Evalyn snagged from some end cap, check. because I didn't feel like arguing even though I know I will be picking them up and vacuuming them for the next few weeks. weak moment.
Socks for Linnea, check. (Rats! It was Henry that needed socks!! I just now remember...)
Dinner from their food counter, check. It was easier than a drive-thru at this point.
Stop in their nice big bathroom with my paid for merchandise to change Henry, check.

Back to the church to catch the last hour of the evening session. Kids did okay, though it was hard to hear all of the talks over their din. By the last Amen and the strains of the closing hymn, Henry was in meltdown mode and Linnea was at her most independent 2 year old self. As we were buckling into the car (freezing cold wind blowing) Henry had a crying/coughing fit and I could tell it would end with him gagging and throwing up. Sure enough, but I wasn't quick enough with the tissues/bag. Off with that shirt and on with his coat for the ride home. I really do wonder sometimes, if I DID have my usual bag of extra clothes in the back, would this have all happened?? ; )

Fortunately the ride home was uneventful, Matt and I did enjoy some nice conversation, the kids fell asleep and they transferred to their beds without a peep. Now to get up in the morning and do most of it all over again.

Seriously, once you figure 2 round trips at $20 in gas for each trip, that's $40 into a hotel room. Throw in the price of a babysitter for the 6+ hours, assuming we don't pack the kids along next time and that's another $40 easily. Come spring conference we're going to try it out. Except now that I think of it, we'll probably have to get 2 rooms since we'll have an occupancy of 6 by then. Hmmmm, I think we need to make more friends with people in Medford....

Thursday, November 19, 2009

I heard this on NPR

While running some errands this evening before COB, I was able to listen to quite a bit of NPR, with only brief interruptions and no competition from sweet little voices in the back seat asking me about going to the park or when it's going to snow or what animals eat what (Henry's latest interest, similar to his "Does it bite?" phase. All very important conversations to have in the car, to be sure. But since I rarely tune in around the house, the 5 min here and there during picking up and dropping off and going here or there amounts to 95% of my news intake.

So tonight, just as I was pulling into the driveway, this news headline made me laugh out loud to myself: Swine Flu and Santas, what many groups are doing to prevent further spread of the flu. The gloves are coming off. "We're going to make hand sanitizing part of the Santa Visit Ritual." Maybe it's been a long day, but that just seemed really weird to me.

Next was hearing listeners responses to a story I actually heard part of earlier in the week about breast cancer awareness/prevention/testing/detection. A lot of confusion stemmed from studies indicating that breast self-examinations shouldn't be taught or encouraged. I guess the reasoning is a high number of false-positives that can lead to more testing and that was bad, or something. Whereas simply focusing on "breast awareness" is just as effective. Much as you would be aware if there was a lump on your leg because you are aware of what is normal for your body. Also, "early detection" of breast cancer via self-discovery of a lump usually meant that at that point the cancer had already spread significantly enough that early detection was a mute point. In other words, early detection via self-exam may be a misnomer. I'm sure I got a lot of this wrong, but it's definitely something to be aware of. And, as with most new studies, it is controversial, especially amongst breast-cancer survivors and advocates. For those who are interested, read more here.

Third thing I thought sounded interesting, The Decade's Most Important Recordings. For the record, I'm not a music junkie. And I'm usually not big into Most Important/Top Whatever lists because there's always so much that isn't on it. Yes I own an iPod but my Top 25 Played in iTunes is most likely Children's Music, Audiobooks or Podcasts.

I'm woefully ignorant of a variety of genres and the significance of artists within those. If it wasn't for college roommates back in the day, and later on my husband, I would be even more woefully ignorant. Surprising to me as I reflect on it, the majority of those days were in the previous decade to this one. *sigh*. So it's only through various friends and their recommendations (mostly on their blog playlists) that I have any insight into the modern music world. And the random NPR story of course. But I would like to know more, to a certain extent.

So this list looks interesting, and the comments that inevitably go with it. If for anything to give me some glimpse into what's what. Of course this is subjective to what "they" think is significant. What I like to listen to and think of as good or significant is my own thing. IF I were into lists I'd probably make one of Music That's Significant To Me and paste it down below. But would it really mean anything to anyone else? Besides I've got at least a dozen other things on my to-do list (one kind of list that I DO find essential) that are more important. But most importantly, I have a 2yo climbing on my back who needs her bedtime stories read. So there you go.

Monday, November 02, 2009

Halloween: Sans Camera

We enjoyed a very low key and fun Halloween this year. With school activities and playdate parties and other costume wearing events, it lasted all week! Friday was the climax with the big Halloween parade in our cozy little downtown. The middle school band plays while the younger two elementary schools parade down main street and then back to their classrooms for Halloween parties the rest of the day. Tons of fun to see all the costumes and and teachers dressed up for the parade. Henry and Linnea and myself even joined in at the very end with the pre-school Evalyn attended last year. We marched along for a couple of blocks. It was fun waving and seeing friends we recognized on the side lines.

I took some cute pictures of that and our family pumpkin patch outing and the kids in their cute costumes earlier in the week. But somewhere after the parade the camera disappeared. Gone. Vanished. It probably fell out of the stroller or car when I put the stroller back in and was in a hurry to get to Evalyn's class to deliver some caramel apples for their class party.

I didn't notice it missing until Saturday morning. I assumed it was in the diaper bag. But a thorough check of the car and all through the house and driveway and even the street where I parked and a stop at the police station yielded nothing. Our last ditch effort is to post a classified ad and a few posters, but I have little hope in that.

So no pictures of Matt and the kids spray painting their paper mache pumpkins that he worked on with them all week. Henry wanted to be a pumpkin and Matt said he would do it. By Saturday afternoon he had a very fun pumpkin head for Henry to wear with his glow in the dark skeleton pajamas from Grammum. Earlier in the week he was a scarecrow and a prince and a cowboy, all courtesy of our very well stocked dress-up box.

Evalyn wanted to be Barbie's Mariposa Princess Butterfly, etc. We got creative with her fun sparkly butterfly swimsuit and skirt from the summer, a pair of dollar store wings from an earlier birthday party and some fun hair styling/makeup. She was happy. And she also dressed up as Ariel the mermaid for her ballet class.

Linnea was a puppy dog that she also wore last year and Henry the year before that. She was also a little flower fairy courtesy of the dress-up box. She actually loves to wear hats and hoods so it was fun that she kept her costume on the whole time!

But no pictures of that or the Trunk or Treat and our very cool decorated back of the car that Matt and the kids did while I was mixing together hot cocoa to bring. No pumpkin carving pictures or glowing jack o' lanterns. No halloween loot snapshots of the kids in candy heaven.

Matt did pull out his trusty vintage Nikon and snapped some shots with that, so hopefully we'll get some nice prints back at some point. Fortunately, some friends have emailed/posted a couple of pictures, but none of Evalyn yet.


marching in the parade with the preschool


at our friend Jenn's house (Linnea is hiding behind Tigger)

Friday, October 23, 2009

New To Us Oven

Yet another project to document is the new wall oven. When we first moved in, we took one look at the tiny ancient wall oven and decided to replace it. So we found a great deal in the local paper and bought a used new-ish one for $200. To install it required some minor cabinetry work and some electrical so this was a job for Super Dad.

The original time frame got pushed back because of other projects in that first 6 months that were higher priority. So the oven sat in the garage. And sat. And sat. It became a surface for coats and car items and whatever else needed to get set on it. Finally enough was enough. We were tired of tripping over it and having it take up space in the garage. Plus with my growing belly and the prospect of hosting Thanksgiving dinner rather then venturing on the road at 36 weeks, we wanted our larger nicer oven installed please.

So my parents came down to visit us the first weekend in October, also Conference Weekend in our church where we hear talks/sermons from our prophet and other church leaders on Saturday and Sunday in 4 different 2 hours sessions. So we were a little tight on time, but my dad was very efficient and able to cut out the cabinetry, wire the new outlet and install the new stove all on Saturday.




The upper cabinet had to be cut away for the taller oven. He was able to move the frame-plate thing up, cut the doors and voila! Once I spread some wood filler and paint on it, you'd never know the difference.



By Sunday morning we were enjoying Orange Rolls (I use this recipe but for the filling I prefer this one.)baked in our new bright and shiny oven. Oh, and we even baked potatoes on Saturday night! These were huge russets from my parents garden topped with homegrown sweet peppers. Yum.



I'm still getting used to the front hinge rather than side hinge like the old one. That was the only nice thing about the old oven: being able to open it like a microwave and reach right in to check the food. But for all the other features like digital temp control, timed baking, TWO shelves and enough height to bake two cookie sheets at a time, I'm in baking heaven.



I was a tiny bit sad to see our old oven be demolished and heaped in a pile, but it really was time for something new. (It wasn't nearly as traumatic as seeing our beloved sofa crammed into the back of that garbage truck in Maryland. I seriously did shed tears about that. ) The new one is safer, too. The kids can touch the door without risk of burning themselves which was a very real concern with the other one.

I'm sure I could've told this anecdote in a much more creative way, but oh well. I still have at least 3 posts or other going-ons to catch up with!!

No More Brown

While I'm on the subject of paint, I'd been meaning to post some pictures of the amazing transformation Uncle Dougie did to our house this past spring and summer.

First, here's the ugly brown gables/gutters/eaves that our house has had since we moved in. Yuck.



But at least it's better than the whole house being PINK AND BROWN, like the north side of the garage was.



Not to mention our unfinished trim from the window install project a year ago. (Note the off-white primed trim rather than bright white.)



After he was done our house and roof looked years younger. Seriously, the white roof looks so much better with white trim and gutters than the brown did. Less contrast or something. Even though it could be replaced aesthetically, until it starts leaking we've got another 5 years out of it I'd say. ; )



It was so amazing how much better things looked from every window to not have that brown peering in everywhere.





A HUGE HUGE HUGE THANK YOU to Uncle Dougie for his hard work and time he put into this. The last part was while we were in PA in August so we came home to not only fresh paint but a re-organized shed and rearranged rocks in the entry with a friendly gnome on a stump that Eva named Peter and a re-done play area for the kids and rocks lining the perimeter of the grass. It was a lovely lovely treat to come home to. You are the best Doug!!